SECTIONS
Introduction
Packing hard
A note about male anatomy
Soft Packers: Introduction
A. Softskin/thermal gel packers
B. Soft-silicone packers
Dual-use packers
Medical Adhesive for prosthetics
Introduction
The term "packing" refers to the process of creating a male-looking and/or male-feeling
bulge in one's crotch. This can be accomplished through a home-made or store-bought
pants stuffer, or through a realistic-looking prosthetic device. A packing device
may be referred to as a "packer" or "packy," or as an "STP
packer" if it can also be used to pee through while standing up (STP= Stand
To Pee). Some guys simply refer to their packer or prosthetic as a cock and
balls, a dick, etc.
The goal of packing differs depending on who is doing it. A number of trans men do not pack at all-- some find it too hot and/or sticky, others find it uncomfortable and/or inconvenient, and still others find it personally unnecessary. Some trans men pack simply for the sake of creating a realistic-looking bulge in their pants. Others may pack only on certain occasions (while swimming, while in the locker room, or wearing tight-fitting pants). Still others may feel incomplete and/or conspicuous without wearing a packer or prosthetic device. Some have realistic prosthetics that are affixed to the skin for wear throughout the day and night. For many trans men, the term "packing" itself is not even an accurate descriptor for the wearing of a prosthetic device-- a prosthetic may be considered an extension of the body rather than merely a pants-stuffer.
For the sake of convenience for the reader, many types of packers as well as prosthetics are included in this section, with the understanding that different individuals may have different uses for and feelings about such devices.
This section covers a range of packers, including home-made devices, pre-made items that can be purchased in stores or over the internet, and professionally-made prosthetic penises, as well as straps and harness devices that can be used to hold a packer in place.
Packing hard
To "pack hard" refers to the wearing of a dildo or other prosthetic
device that is erect and can be used for sexual penetration. As the vast majority
men do not walk around for most of the day with an erect penis, this section
is devoted mainly to "soft packing," or packing with the intent to
create the look and/or feel of a flaccid penis and scrotum.
There are times when packing hard might be attempted (for example, just before sexual activity is anticipated). However, for general day-to-day packing, it is not recommended that you pack hard, as the look it creates will be unrealistic. Devices that can be used specifically for sexual penetration are described in the Packing Hard section.
There are very few products that have been designed for "dual use" (i.e., they can be packed fairly comfortably in everyday situations and can also be used for penetrative sex). Such "dual use"/"pack and play" packers and prosthetics are included below.
A note about male anatomy
For those who are packing for the first time, and who may not have a lot of
direct experience with men's penises, it can be helpful to do a little research
in order to create a realistic look. In order to see what male anatomy tends
to look like in underwear, in swim trunks, or jeans or slacks, it can be helpful
to look at men's clothing catalogs or internet retailers of menswear or men's
underwear-- this way, you can stare as much as you want at guys' crotches without
having to worry about offending or upsetting anyone. In order to get an idea
for how the male anatomy looks and sits on the body, you might wish to look
at a magazine, web site, or book that shows flaccid penises. The web site www.erectionphotos.com
has a "soft/hard" section, showing penises in both flaccid and erect
states. It shows variation in the size and shape of men's penises, and shows
men of varying sizes and ages. The site is not pornographic, is free of charge,
and provides useful information on erection curves, penis shape and size, and
scientific studies on those topics. Searching the web for "flaccid penis
photos" will yield other results as well. Just keep in mind while you are
looking that the average length for a flaccid penis tends to be just over
3 inches, and that the men you see in most porn sites and movies will tend to
be very well-endowed, and will usually be shown while erect.
Packing devices: home-made
There are affordable and realistic looking/feeling packers on the market today,
but if you are very short on cash, are just starting to pack, or simply do not
want to invest in a store-bought packer, the following home-made devices can
serve quite adequately, and can be adjusted to your own tastes.
Socks
The use of a rolled up sock is an inexpensive way to create a bulge. Be
realistic-- don't use your thickest athletic socks rolled up in a big ball!
You may wish to use a jock strap to keep the sock(s) in place, or you may try
pinning the sock(s) to the inside of your underwear so that they don't shift
or fall out. You also may want to try tying the sock with a string or strings
to help hold its shape, so that it doesn't unfold or unroll in your pants as
you move.
A big disadvantage of using socks is that the extra layer of material in your pants can be uncomfortably warm and cause sweating and lingering dampness. Socks also do not feel realistic-- if you are concerned that someone might come in close contact with your crotch, you may wish to use a different method.
Condoms and hair gel or "gak"
This method feels more realistic than the sock method, and is fairly inexpensive.
To make this packer, you will need a few unlubricated condoms and some unscented
hair gel or "gak." Gak can be made at home with white glue, water,
and borax (the recipe is listed below).
Partially fill a condom with hair gel or gak-- this will be your dick. Leave enough room so that you can tie the condom, and so that the size of the dick is realistic. Tie the condom tightly, place it inside another condom, and tie that one tightly. If you are expecting to be very active, you might want to "triple bag" and add another condom.
If you wish to make balls, you can make two smaller pieces in the same manner, and tie them inside a third condom to mimic a scrotum. You can then carefully tie the whole package together.
This packer can be worn in a jock strap, or in tight fitting underwear. It can also be worn in a number of the store-bought harness/strap items listed below. You may wish to place the packer in the toe of a nylon stocking or in a thin sock (a baby sock works well), as unlubricated condoms can pull on your public hair in a way that is uncomfortable.
For this type of packer, gak tends to be more realistic in feel than hair gel. The main disadvantage of this packer is that it can be accidentally torn or punctured. It should be replaced every few months, or whenever it shows signs of wear.
Recipe for gak
Items needed:
2 containers
1 measuring cup (ml)
hot water
1 stirring stick
1 large container non-toxic, all-purpose white glue (such as "Elmer's"
or school glue)
1 box borax
tap water
Directions:
Label the containers: one "A" and the other "B."
Measure out 30 ml of tap water and pour into container "A."
Measure out 30 ml of Elmer's glue and pour into cup "A".
Stir thoroughly, about 1 minute. Set aside.
Measure out 240 ml of hot water and pour into container "B."
Measure out 16 ml of borax and pour into cup "B."
Stir thoroughly until totally dissolved. Set aside for 2 minutes.
Measure out 30 ml of the dissolved solution in container "B."
Pour this measurement into container "A."
Immediately start stirring. Stir until it thickens into a gel-like
state.
With the remaining contents of container "B," you can measure out
additional contents of "A" mixture to make additional gak, or throw
out remaining contents of "B."
Packing devices: store-bought
Realistic and affordable packers, as well as STP devices, have been
developed in recent years. There are a number of online retail outlets from
which these products can be purchased, including sites operated by trans men. The main types of packers are listed below, along with general pricing
information and retail contacts. Keep in mind that pricing and availability
may change.
Caring for yourself and your packer:
A note about silicone, cyberskin, ultraskin, softskin, elastomer, and other materials
Store-bought packers are made out of different types of materials. When purchasing
a packer, it is important to know what the device is made of and how to care
for it and use it safely.
The surface of packers made from materials such as "cyberskin," "ultraskin," "softskin," "elastomer," or "thermal gel" is porous, meaning it can easily pick up dirt and bacteria. If you try to use these devices for any kind of sex play, they should always be used with condoms. Keeping these types of materials clean will help maintain their texture and quality. They should be washed frequently with mild soap and warm water, and rinsed well. They cannot be boiled for sterilization purposes, as this would melt the material. When storing or wearing them, you may wish to dust their surface lightly with cornstarch to keep them from collecting dirt and lint. (Do not use talcum powder for this purpose, as there is some evidence that the use of talcum powder has been linked to cervical cancer.)
There are also packers made from soft, high quality silicone. 100% silicone products are non-porous and can be sterilized by boiling in water for 1-2 minutes. Silicone packers should also be regularly washed with a mild soap and hot water, then rinsed and dried thoroughly before storing. When storing or wearing them, you may wish to dust their surface lightly with cornstarch to keep them from collecting dirt and lint. (Do not use talcum powder for this purpose, as there is some evidence that the use of talcum powder has been linked to cervical cancer.) Care should be taken to avoid breaking the surface of silicone. Once a crack has formed, silicone can tear quite easily.
Other packers are made from soft plastic materials such as jelly, "siligel," or other creative names. Unless stated otherwise by the manufacturer, such items should be treated as porous materials such as the cyberskin family listed above.
Soft packers: introduction
Affordable, realistic-feeling soft packers are available through a variety
of sources on the internet, as well as in some sex shops. For the most part,
the soft packers listed below fall into two basic categories: A. "softskin"/"thermal
gel"/"elastomer" packers, or B. soft-silicone packers.
Within category A, there are two widely available kinds of "softskin"/"thermal gel"/"elastomer" packers. The first is an elastomer packer that is referred to as "Mr. Limpy" or "Mr. Softie" (different stores will call it by different names, but they are all the same packer), made by Fleshlight. The second is a "softskin" packer called the "GV Soft Pack", made by Good Vibrations.
Within category B, there are three widely available kinds of soft-silicone packers. The first is called "Mr. Right", made by Vixen with their special "VixSkin" silicone formulation. The second is called "Bella", made by Vamp Silicone. The third is called "Pac Man", made by Happy Valley Silicone. (There are additional, more expensive packing products made from silicone-- these are listed in the Prosthetics section.)
Soft pack choices are described in detail below.
A. Softskin/thermal gel/elastomer packers
The stores listed below carry type A softskin/thermal gel/elastomer packers.
Each store might use a different name to describe these products, and some have different names for the various sizes. The online sources featured
below are affirming of diversity
in gender and sexuality.
Mister Softie Elastomer Packer from The Tool Shed
www.toolshedtoys.com
The Mister Softie Elastomer packer, made by Fleshlight, is a realistic-looking packer made from phthalate-free elastomer, a soft, flexible
material that maintains the same temperature as your body and feels realistic
when squeezed. It is made into the shape of a flaccid penis and scrotum, and
is available through the Tool Shed in two colors: vanilla "flesh" tone (NEW!) and pink. The Mr. Softie comes in
three sizes, 3-1/2 inches for $13.00, 5-1/2 inches for $14.00, and 6-1/2 inches for $15.00. The 3-1/2 inch
model has larger testicles than the 5-1/2 or 6-1/2 inch models. Note: Purchasing products through the Tool Shed web site directly supports FTMguide.org. The Tool Shed is a trans and partner friendly.
The GV Soft Pack from The Tool Shed
www.toolshedtoys.com
The GV Soft Pack, made by Good Vibrations, is made a bit differently than the "Mr. Softie" listed above. The shaft of the packer features a slightly stiffer inner core material that provides a bit more of a realistic feel, and the outer design of the shaft includes veins and texture on the scrotum. It is made of a phthalate-free softskin. The GV Soft Pack is available in two sizes, a 4 inch model for $24.00 and a 5 inch model for $28.00. Colors are vanilla, caramel, and coffee.
Note: Purchasing products through the Tool Shed web site directly supports FTMguide.org. The Tool Shed is a trans and partner friendly.
The Packy from Early To Bed
www.early2bed.com
The Early to Bed Packy is the same as the "Mr. Softie" listed above. They carry small
(3-1/2 inch) for $12.00, medium (5-1/2 inch) for $14.00, and large (6-1/2 inch)
for $16.00 in pink.
The Soft Pack from Babeland
www.babeland.com
The Babeland Soft Pack is the same as the "Mr. Softie" listed above. It is available in pink in mini, small, medium and large sizes. The mini is 3-1/2 inches long for $16.00, the small is 4-1/2 inches long for $18.00, the medium is 5-3/4 inches long for $20.00, and the large is 7 inches long for $22.00.
The Soft Pack from Good Vibrations
www.goodvibes.com
The Good Vibrations Soft Pack is the same as the GV Soft Pack, listed above. The Good Vibes Soft Pack is available in two sizes, a 4 inch model for $24.00 and a 5 inch model for $28.00. Available colors are vanilla, caramel, and coffee.
B. Soft-silicone packers
Soft silicone packers have a few substantial differences from their softskin/elastomer counterparts. First, even when cast in a soft formulation, 100% silicone packers tend to be a bit firmer and less flexible/stretchy than softskin/elastomer. They also tend to be a bit denser and heavier. This is simply due to the inherent differences in the materials.
As mentioned previously, 100% silicone packers are non-porous and can be sterilized, and they are easier to keep clean over the long term than softskin/elastomer packers. The surface of the silicone will not "pill" or deteriorate (though if nicked or cut, silicone can tear). Silicone also may be a good choice for people who have sensitive skin or find themselves to be irritated by softskin/elastomer packers.
Mr. Right from The Tool Shed
www.toolshedtoys.com
This packer is made from a soft, molded silicone that feels realistic.
The shaping includes slightly different-sized textured balls and a detailed head. It is firmer and a bit heavier than the type-A soft packers
listed above, and it holds it shape more firmly. Because this packer is made
of silicone, it is easy to keep clean and can be sterilized, and can be less irritating for those with any kind of skin sensitivity. It comes in one
size, 4-1/2 inches long with a 1-1/4 inch diameter shaft. Three colors are available:
vanilla, caramel, and chocolate.
$48.00
Note: Purchasing products through the Tool Shed web site directly supports FTMguide.org. The Tool Shed is a trans and partner friendly.
Mr. Right from Early to Bed
www.early2bed.com
This packer is the same packer as the Mr. Right described above. Again, it comes
in one size, 4-1/2 inches long with a 1-1/4 inch diameter shaft.
$50.00
Mr. Right from Babeland
www.babeland.com
This packer is the same packer as the Mr. Right described above. Again, it comes
in one size, 4-1/2 inches long with a 1-1/4 inch diameter shaft.
$56.00
Mr. Right from The Smitten Kitten
www.smittenkittenonline.com
This packer is the same packer as the Mr. Right described above. Again, it comes
in one size, 4-1/2 inches long with a 1-1/4 inch diameter shaft.
$56.00
Bella Packy from The Smitten Kitten
www.smittenkittenonline.com
This packer is made by Vamp silicone. It is not quite as soft as the Mr. Right, and the balls are much smaller and flatter in proportion to the shaft. The small has a 4.5" shaft with 2.5" wide balls, and the large has a 6" shaft with 3" wide balls. Available in cream, cocoa, and cafe au lait colors.
$50.00
Pack-Man from Come As You Are (Canada)
www.comeasyouare.com
This packer is made by Happy Valley Silicone. It is the smallest mass-produced silicone packer on the market. The shaft measures 3" x 1-1/4" diameter. Available in vanilla, caramel, or chocolate.
$40.00
Dual-use packers
There are very few packing products that have been designed for "dual-use" (i.e.,
they can be packed fairly comfortably in everyday situations and can also be
used for penetrative sex). Unless otherwise indicated, you can assume that the
dual-use packers listed below include testicles. See also
the dual-use devices in the "prosthetics"
section.
If you are anticipating sexual activity, having a dual-use packer available can be quite helpful. However, if you plan any vigorous motion, you'll probably have to wear such packers with a harness. You also may want to use plenty of lubricant, as they tend to be a bit less firm than most dildos/prosthetics designed for penetration.
For general day-to-day packing, wearing dual-use packers may not be very comfortable, and may also look and feel unrealistic, as though you are sporting an erection or semi-erection all day. Use you judgment when considering these packers-- they might not be the best for everyday wear.
Silky from The Tool Shed
www.toolshedtoys.com
(This model has no balls)
Silky is semi-realistic, with veins and no balls. Made of elastomer, with a flexible rod at its core that can be bent to almost any angle. It is a little firmer than the Bendy and Porter models listed below. This packer's material is porous and should
be used with a condom. The color is a not-very-realistic bubblegum pink. 7" x 1-1/2" $55.00 Note: Purchasing products through the Tool Shed web site directly supports FTMguide.org. The Tool Shed is a trans and partner friendly.
Silky from Early to Bed
www.early2bed.com
(This model has no balls)
Silky is the same as described above. 7" x 1-1/2" $60.00
Bendy from Early to Bed
www.early2bed.com
Bendy is a 6 x 1-1/2 inch dildo that can also be used for penetration.
It has a rod at its core that can be bent to almost any angle. The texture of
the outer layer is soft and skin-like. This packer's material is porous and
should be used with a condom. It comes in light pink. $38.00
Danny from Early to Bed
www.early2bed.com
Realistic, with veins and balls. Made of "siligel," it is a relatively soft material. 6" x 1-1/2". This packer's material is porous and should be used
with a condom. It comes in vanilla. $20.00
Porter from Early to Bed
www.early2bed.com
Porter is a 6 x 1-1/2 inch dildo/dick that can also be used for penetration.
It has a rod at its core that can be bent to almost any angle. It has a little
more cushioning than the Bendy model around the rod, has more of a "loose
skin" look, and the color is much more pink in hue. The texture of the
outer layer is soft and skin-like. This packer's material is porous and should
be used with a condom. $30.00
Mr. Bendy from Babeland
(This model has no balls)
www.babeland.com
Mr. Bendy features a thick, soft cyberskin outer layer with a bendable core
to keep it firm enough for penetration. It is available in black or pink (the
pink looks like cotton candy and is not very realistic), and measures 6 x 1-1/2
inches. This packer's material is porous and should be used with a condom. $65.00
Prosthetics
If you are looking for a realistic packer than can be worn on your body without
a harness or strap for days at a time, then a prosthetic penis and testicles
might be what you are looking for.
Lola.Jake
www.lolajake.com
The Lola.Jake line of realistic prosthetic packers was created by the Too Sticky company; they have been designed specifically for the trans male community. Each prosthetic is hand-crafted and made of a blend of 5 silicone materials. There is excellent detailing of veins, texture, and coloring. Lola.Jake includes both simple packing models as well as "play" models that offer an insertable, bendable silicone rod so that they can be used for sexual penetration. Some (but not all) of the Lola.Jake designs feature 3D balls/testicles, while some offer balls/testicles with a flat back (as often seen in less expensive soft skin packers). They also offer both uncut foreskin as well as circumcised models.
Customizations are offered in coloring, length, girth, retractable foreskin, ball size, and STP modification-- be sure to check the pricing list, as these incur additional fees. Orders generally take about 3 weeks, though more time may be needed for custom work.
Measurements for the packers listed below are length x girth. Length measurements are taken from the base of the balls to the tip of the head. Girth/thickness measurements are the circumference of the shaft from the base of the balls.
The Lola.Jake packing models include: "Billy" (specs not provided, circumcised, with full 3D balls, $175) "Cherry Packer" (3.5" x 4.25", circumcised, flat-back balls, $125), "Cherry Packer Plus" (3.5" x 4.5", circumcised, with full 3D balls, $150), "David" (3.5" x 4", circumcised, full 3D balls, $195) and "Cooper" (3.85" x 4.5", uncircumcised, flat-back balls, $195), "Ryan" (5" x 4.5", with full 3D balls, circumcised, $225) None of these models features an insertable rod.
Pack and Play models in the 5-6 inch range (with insertable rod) include: "Sam" (5.25" x 4.75", circumcised, with flat-back balls, $325), "Sam Plus" (5.25" x 4.75", circumcised, with full 3D balls, $475), "Chris" (5" x 5.2", circumcised, with full 3D balls, $475), "Derek" (5.5" x 5.5", circumcised, with full 3D balls, $465), "Keith" (5.2" x 5.5", circumcised, with full 3D balls, $495).
Lola.Jake also offers several larger "Play" models above 6" in length (with insertable rods) that many may find to be a bit large for everyday packing needs-- these additional models are listed on the Packing Hard page, prosthetics section.
All of the Lola.Jake prosthetics can be worn with medical adhesive, in a packing harness, or using the Blue Tape & Poxy Kits offered by Lola.Jake.
Home Grown Packer Line
www.hg-prosthetics.com
This is an Australian site that offers several models and sizes of soft packers,
made of elastomeric gel. The packers are made by an FTM community member and
are sold at a very affordable price. They are designed to be attached to the
pubic area with medical adhesive. But they can also
be worn in the packing harnesses listed below.
There is also an option to convert most of the packers into stand-to-pee (STP) devices. The J Jay 4.5", Hugo 5.5", Average Joe 3.5", Johnson 6", and Peter 3.5" models can all be equipped as STP packers for an additional AU$30. The Trainer 3.5" and Nico 3.5" cannot be converted to STP. Prices range from AU$80 to AU$100. Prices can be converted to U.S. dollars at www.xe.com/ucc.
The Project
www.tyron2.net
The creator of the Project, based in Germany, began
working with silicones and plastics in order to create a realistic, durable, and comfortable prosthetic for FTM transsexuals. As a trans man himself, he became
aware of some of the limitations of other prosthetic products, and has attempted
to address those in the Project's development.
The site offers a product called "Phase 2"--a very realistic-looking dick and testicles that can be worn both flaccid and erect. It is designed to be attached with medical adhesive at both the pelvis and at a very small area just below the tailbone. The prosthetic can become erect if you desire by pumping the balls until the shaft reaches full length and desired hardness. A release valve returns the prosthetic to its flaccid state. The shaft is designed to lay naturally when flaccid.
The flaccid size is about 4 inches long, and the erect size is about 6.5 inches long. The skin on the shaft and scrotum are soft and flexible move freely when touched. 9 different skin tones are available. Bluish veins can be seen and felt when erect, but not when flaccid. The prosthetic is made of silicone, and can be boiled to disinfect.
Phase 2 comes with a care guide (available in English or German), and the cost is 1,209 Euro. The site does not sell adhesives, but provides recommendations for where to purchase them. Prices can be converted to U.S. Dollars at the following web site: www.xe.com/ucc.
Camouflage Prosthetics
www.ftmprosthetics.com
This is the web site of a professional prosthetics maker in Australia who makes realistic penile prosthetics specifically for the FTM community. He makes flaccid, erect, and dual-use prosthetics, and each is custom made in a size that suits you, and from a choice of 15 skin shades.
These prosthetics are designed to be attached to the pubic area with medical adhesive. But they can also be worn in the packing harnesses listed below.
The flaccid models include small, mid, and large (approximately 3 inches, 4 inches, and 5 inches, respectively), and examples can be seen on the web site. They can be made with or without foreskin. They are made from silicone on the exterior and filled with a special gel so that the prosthesis is soft to the touch and will squash slightly when squeezed. All sizes are AU$730.00.
The dual-use prosthesis is hard enough for penetration, but soft enough for daily wear. It hangs down so that is does not create too much of a bulge. This model can be purchased with or without testicles. The model with testicles has a flexible implant in the core, so that you can bend it upward for penetration. The regular-size dual model is 5 inches in length, and the large size is 6 inches in length. The regular dual model without testicles is AU$1260; with testicles is AU$1400. The large dual model comes with testicles and is AU$1500.
Prices can be converted to U.S. Dollars at the following web site: www.xe.com/ucc
The De Nijs Prosthesis
www.phallusprosthesis.nl
This site is based in the Netherlands. They offer a silicone prosthetic that is designed to be attached to the inside of your underwear or swimming trunks via a small piece of elastic. This may not appeal to those who wish to wear a prosthetic with medical adhesive, but this product is included nonetheless in this section because it is different from other packers available.
The product is made of silicon gel inside an outer silicon skin. It is available in two colors (white and black) and four sizes: Model A: 12.5 centimeters (4.9 inches), Model B: 11.5 centimeters (4.5 inches), Model C: 10.5 centimeters (4.1 inches), and Model D: 9.5 centimeters (3.7 inches). It can be can be made with or without a scrotum, and the scrotum itself can be delivered with or without testicles. The testicles are approximately 2.3 centimeters in diameter (0.9 inch). A half-scrotum model can be custom-made for those who underwent a scrotum operation but are not fully satisfied with their scrotum size.
The prosthesis comes with a two-year guarantee. If the phallus reduces in size De Nijs will enlarge the prosthesis free of charge within the warranty period. The cost of the prosthesis, including scrotum is $550, without scrotum is $350.
Stand-to-pee (STP) packers
The packers listed below feature tubing that runs through the shaft of the packer
and allows the user to pee through the packer while standing up.
STP-FITZ
All models sold through www.toolshedtoys.com
STP-FITZ, an FTM-owned business, retrofits soft packers into two styles of STP packer-- one with a medicine spoon receptacle, and one with a softer, wider silicone nipple receptacle. They retrofit two different soft packs into STPs, as described below.
STP-FITZ retrofits the Mr. Softie (i.e. Fleshlight) packer, which is only available in "fleshtone"/vanilla, which is a light skin tone. The Mr. Softie is unfortunately not available in darker skin tones. This STP comes in two shaft lengths: 3.5-inch and 5-inch. 3.5-inch STP packers are $44, 5-inch STP packers are $47.
STP-FITZ also retrofits the GV packer, which comes in three colors (vanilla, caramel, and chocolate), and in two different shaft lengths (4-inch and 5-inch). 4-inch STP packers are $52, 5-inch STP packers are $58. These cost a bit more than the Softie version because the GV packers are more costly.
All styles of STP-FITZ packers can be purchased through the Tool Shed web site, where a number of other products for trans men are also available-- check the "gender expression" link on the left hand page menu for a listing. Note: Purchasing products through the Tool Shed web site directly supports FTMguide.org. The Tool Shed is a trans and partner friendly.
FTM S.T.U.D.
www.gearguygear.com
As of July 2010, the FTM STUD (stand-to-urinate device) is back in production. The Gear Guy retrofits 2 sizes of soft packer into a medicine-spoon style packer using three different choices of urinary receptacle size-- small, medium, and large. The STUD is available in FleshTone in two shaft lengths: the 3.5-inch shaft size for $45 or the 5-inch shaft for $55. The Gear Guy also offers great discounts for cash or money order sales.
The Pissin' Passin' Packer (PPP)
djknowsdicks.com
This item is a retrofitted soft-packer that has been modified with tubing and a medicine spoon to create
a stand-to-pee packer. DJ offers 4 sizes (Teeny is 3-1/2 inches, Small is 5
inches, Medium is 6 inches, and Huge is 7 inches). All models are $50.00.
Home Grown Packer Line, STP options
www.hg-prosthetics.com
This is an Australian site that offers several models and sizes of soft packers,
made of elastomeric gel, that can be converted into STP packers. The packers
are made by an FTM community member and are sold at a very affordable price.
The J Jay 4.5", Hugo 5.5", Average Joe 3.5", Johnson 6", and Peter 3.5" models can all be equipped as STP packers. The base price for J Jay, Hugo, and Johnson (without STP) is AU$100; Average Joe and Peter is AU$80. To add the STP feature, add AU$30.
Prices are listed in Australian dollars, and can be converted to U.S. dollars at www.xe.com/ucc.
The MANGO from Mango Products
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Packing harnesses/pockets
This section covers various devices and methods that can be used to
keep a packer or prosthetic in place.
Briefs
Most packers can be worn "loose" inside a pair of close-fitting briefs;
however, trouble may be encountered when going to the bathroom or when changing
clothes in a public setting such as a locker room. If care is not taken the
packer may fall out, potentially causing confusion and embarrassment (not to
mention unwanted exposure). Packers can also wiggle out of briefs during exercise
or due to sudden motion. One solution to this problem is to tie the packer inside
the toe of a nylon stocking or inside a small, thin sock, and then to attach the stocking/sock to the inside of your briefs with a safety pin.
Jock Strap
A traditional jock strap (used without a protective cup) can be used to hold
a packer in place. Jock straps provide a bit more security than simply wearing
the packer in your briefs (especially in the bathroom), but they are also susceptible
to the same problem of the packer falling out at an ill-timed moment. As with
briefs, a solution to this problem is to tie the packer inside the toe of a
nylon stocking or inside a small, thin sock, and then to securely pin the stocking/sock
to the inside of the jock strap. Another more secure solution is to use a jock strap that has a pouch built in for a protective cup: you can remove the cup and place the packer securely inside the pouch.
Jock straps come in a variety of styles and with varying thickness in their
straps. Swimmers' jocks tend to have very thin and unobtrusive straps, which
may work well under tighter clothing or inside bathing suits. International Jock
features many different styles of jock straps. There are also jock straps available
without leg straps which some find comfortable for packing ("The Sock"
and "the Jersey Jockstrap" are examples of strapless models available
at www.undergear.com).
Performance/compression shorts with pouch
Certain brands of athletic performance shorts, such as compression shorts, have a pouch for a protective cup much like a traditional jock strap. A packer can be placed securely in the pouch of such shorts. Because compression shorts are tight, it is best to pick a brand that is made of a breathable material that will wick away moisture. Under Armour makes a Men's HeatGear Ventilated Compression Short for $29.99 (item 1000025) that features a mesh pouch. You may wish to check your local sporting goods store for similar products.
The World's Simplest Pack Harness
Check out these instructions for how
to create your own inexpensive pack harness out of a clear elastic material. The instructions and diagrams have been generously provided by the author (email contact shown in the file) in PDF.
FTM Pouch
gearguygear.com
The FTM Pouch s a custom made packing pouch intended to be attached via velcro or with a safety pin to the inside of your underwear or swim trunks. There are two Pouch styles available: basic and deluxe. On either style, you can opt for an opening to allow the shaft of the packer to hang freely.
The Pouch comes in three color options: white, black, or natural beige. The white and black pouches are made from a knit blend fabric, while the natural beige is 100% lycra. Prices range from $10 to $16, depending on sizing and options.
Packing Sack available through the Tool Shed
www.toolshedtoys.com
The FTM Packing Sack is the same as the FTM Pouch described above, made by the Gear Guy and offered through the Tool Shed. It is a custom made packing pouch intended to be attached via a safety pin or velcroed inside your underwear or swim trunks.
The Pouch comes in three color options: white, black, or natural beige. The white and black Pouches are made from a knit blend fabric, while the natural beige is 100% lycra. The Packing Sack in black of white with shaft opening is $12. The beige lycra Packing Sack with shaft opening and velcro attachment is $14. Note: Purchasing products through the Tool Shed web site directly supports FTMguide.org. The Tool Shed is a trans and partner friendly.
FTM Cock Sock
gearguygear.com
The FTM Cock Sock features a custom-made packing pouch sewn to a 1.5 inch elastic waistband. It is worn around your lower waist, like underwear. You can opt for an opening to allow the shaft of the packer
to hang freely.
The pouch portion is available in various different fabric/color choices. The waistband material comes in white or black calendared elastic. Sizes extra-small thru 3XL are available. Prices range from $12-$14, and jock-style leg straps can be added for an additional $2.
Packing Sack with Waistband available through the Tool Shed
www.toolshedtoys.com
The Packing Sack with waistband is the same as the FTM Cock Sock item described above, made by the Gear Guy and offered through the Tool Shed. It features a custom-made packing pouch sewn to a 1.5 inch elastic waistband. It is worn around your lower waist, like underwear. You can opt for an opening to allow the shaft of the packer
to hang freely.
The pouch portion comes is offered in black cotton. The waistband material comes is black calendared elastic. Waist sizes extra small, small, medium, large, and extra large are available. $14. Note: Purchasing products through the Tool Shed web site directly supports FTMguide.org. The Tool Shed is a trans and partner friendly.
FTM Cock Strap
gearguygear.com
Made with slightly less material to hold the packer than the FTM Cock Sock (above), the Cock Strap also features a 1.5 inch elastic waistband. It is worn around your lower waist, like underwear. The strap colors come in white and black. Extra small thru large are $10 each, extra large thru 3XL are $12 each. Jock-style leg straps can be added for an additional $2.
If you would simply like the Cock Strap without the attached waistband, these are available for $8 or $9, depending on size.
Packing Strap from The Tool Shed
www.toolshedtoys.com
The packing strap is designed specifically to work with the Mr. Right packer; it works best with Mr. Right, but the smallest versions of the soft packs can also be work with this harness. Available in extra small, small, medium, large, and extra-large. Available in black or white, Extra Small (28"-30" hips), Small (30"-34" hips) Medium (34"-38" hips), Large (38"-42" hips), or XL (42"-46" hips). $17.00 Note: Purchasing products through the Tool Shed web site directly supports FTMguide.org. The Tool Shed is a trans and partner friendly.
Jock-Style Packing Strap from The Tool Shed
www.toolshedtoys.com
The packing strap is designed specifically to work with the Mr. Right packer-- it is the same strap described above, except with jock strap style leg straps to help keep the packer in place more firmly. Available in extra small, small, medium, large, and extra-large. Available in black or white, Extra Small (28"-30" hips), Small (30"-34" hips) Medium (34"-38" hips), Large (38"-42" hips), or XL (42"-46" hips). $23.00 Note: Purchasing products through the Tool Shed web site directly supports FTMguide.org. The Tool Shed is a trans and partner friendly.
Packing Strap from Early To Bed
www.early2bed.com
The packing strap is designed specifically to work with the Mr. Right packer; it works best with Mr. Right, but the smallest versions of the soft packs can also be work with this harness. Available in small, medium, large, and extra-large. Available in black or white, Small (30"-34" hips) Medium (34"-38" hips), Large (38"-42" hips), and Extra Large (42"-46" hips). $20.00
Medical adhesive for prosthetics
The silicone prosthetics made by Lola.Jake, Camouflage Prosthetics and The Project, as well as the elastomeric gel prosthesis made by Home Grown, can be attached
to the skin with medical-grade adhesive. Please note that adhesives
cannot be used with ordinary soft-packers, as the adhesive and the
solvent used for removal will quickly damage the material the packer is made
out of.
Basic Instructions for using Medical Adhesive for your prosthesis:
1. Shave the area where the prosthesis is to be attached.
2. Apply a thin layer of adhesive to the back of the prosthesis (where it will
only come into contact with the pubic area).
3. Wait until the adhesive begins to dry (this should take 1 to 2 minutes).
4. Press the prosthetic firmly onto the pubic area
5. Hold in place for 60 seconds.
6. Apply a new layer of adhesive or as needed.
7. Use appropriate removal solvent with a cotton ball to remove adhesive.
The adhesive can be purchased through the three prosthetics makers listed above, or can be bought from a prosthetics supplier such as Factor II, Inc.
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